After the previous two entries (The Half-Way Point, Iowa and Arrived In South Dakota) I figured I should complete the story. It is now two weeks since Mark and I returned to Indiana, and yes, we did make it safely.
Days 4, 5, and 6 (the rest of the story)
The story left off on Friday with the Weekend and Monday still remaining.
Saturday morning we (including my folks) hiked one block to have breakfast with two of my former teachers, bz and cz (who gifted Jenny & I with a wedding cake composed of terry cloth and bath soap, plus a personal cook book 11 years ago). Both of them taught computers, albeit in very different manners. bz likes to cook and he had a great pile of fruit and a delicious breakfast bread. When I say breakfast bread, don't think steaming French bread with butter, think monkey bread in a bunt pan. MMMmmmmm carmel... Mark enjoyed playing with the three dogs and the adults had excellent conversation.
After lunch Mark and I said our goodbyes to leave to visit Ihlen, MN. A relative of mine, Brian, was getting his Eagle Scout award on Sunday. Staying at the Westerburs were Michelle; Brenda, John, and Abigail; Laurie and John; and Mark and myself (oh, and Brian, too). Mark and I took over Brian's room since Brian was going to be at a band competition in Sioux Falls until very late (Pipestone, for whom Brian is a drum major won 8th place and color guard honors out of 44 bands, most of them much larger).
The Eagle Scout Court of Honor had the right mix of formal regalia and personal touches. Both Brian's band director and his former scoutmaster took time to demonstrate the impact Brian has had in his leadership roles (writeup in Pipestone Star). I was so proud to hear about Brian's accomplishments--the Eagle Scout award is just an insignia--it is the impact on people's lives that makes the difference.
[Brian] went on, “My secret to balance is prayer. I pray about things a lot, and I know that God helps me, because I know I couldn’t physically do everything that I do without his help, and that’s a big part of it. I have really been blessed because I have made every Court of Honor, only missed one track meet, and I have made it to every band competition. Things have just worked out where I could be where I needed to be at the time without conflicts.”
Mark sat through both the ceremony and reception very well. It didn't hurt that there were balloons and his toys at the reception. I enjoyed catching up with old friends and new ones, some of whom I met in my last trip out when Brenda got married. My plans to leave the reception after an hour were foiled by the fun time I was having. Mark and I had an appointment with Travis (a high school running teammate) and Gina an 90 minutes away.
After picking up my camera from the Westerbur's home (it didn't take very good pictures of the reception there...) Mark & I braved a deluge on our way to Windom, MN. Jenny & I first visited Travis & Gina for their wedding. We've since visited each time we've passed through Minnesota. They have a two-year-old, Eli, who I was excited to see again (and he was excited to see the balloon we brought in with us). Once again leaving later than desired (well, I would have loved to stay even longer, so I should say later than my itinerary desired...) Mark and I got on the road.
For this evening we didn't have hotel reservations
as I wanted to judge the start time of the trip (anticipating that I'd be poor at leaving events on schedule) and how Mark was traveling. Let me make a note, Mark travels as well as anyone I've ever traveled with! In addition to some interesting conversation (mostly centering around farm vehicles and construction--he's a blue-collar three year old with a green thumb), he also commented on my driving, and helped to decide where we should eat. During this long evening of travel he demonstrated true patience as I know how much time he had spent in the car (albeit with frequent stops) this week. Now we were driving late into the night and he did his best to keep me entertained (I think the 'turbines'
or 'wind mills' on Buffalo Ridge were the favorites of both of us see: Wikipedia's Buffalo Ridge Wind Farm). Because Mark was being such a great traveler and to keep the following day's drive short, we pressed on until past midnight (and past Des Moines, too). There's a good story here about my new toy, a Garmin Nuvi 200 (a car navigation system) and how it helped me find a place to stay, but that will need to wait for another post. By turning the corner from I-35 to I-80 in Iowa we were close to half way home, and a good thing since we would loose an hour going back to Eastern Daylight Time.
The next morning (now Monday) we got up,
ate a continental breakfast, and got back on the road. We had brunch at a great restaurant called the Machine Shed (any restaurant that has a tractor in front of it and gives a John Deere to kids along with their crayons for pre-meal entertainment deserves our patronage). We also stopped at an Iowa rest area with a look out tower, a covered bridge, and a great play area (it also had free wireless Internet, a fact which I tried to ignore despite the fact I didn't know how my Fantasy Football team fared the day before). At this point Mark started to wish he was home, but in a wistful manner, not yet a 'complainy' way (he went from wistful to excited, so no worries about a turn for the worse). We went past an implement factory that has two tractors 'stuck' in the ground nose first with a full, bigger-than-you've-ever-seen plow sticking six stories straight up in the sky. In Peoria we saw the Caterpillar Headquarters and lots of new equipment (both static and on flatbeds on the Interstate). Getting close to home we saw lots of combine harvesters and grain trucks.
I'll wrap this up with a comment that I enjoyed this trip thoroughly. Prepared to endure a 'moderate ordeal' my mental state set expectations at a level where Mark was a dream traveling companion. We logged more than two thousand miles and 26+ hours of driving, but he only complained twice (sometimes we break that record before breakfast). While our Dodge Caravan does have a DVD player, Mark watched two half hour videos two different times usually at a point where it was after his bed time. I have an odd satisfied feeling about this trip. Not only was I present at Brian's Eagle Scout ceremony (the reason for the trip) but I spent time with my family and created some special memories with Mark. Driving (as opposed to flying) was the right decision. I feel a little guilty 'stealing' this special time with Mark. I'll just need to schedule something similar with both Adam and to make sure Jenny & I get a special trip like this for ourselves also sometime.
For the first two posts I didn't have pictures. For this post I have pictures but they're on the wrong computer. Rather than move them for this post, I decided I'd gather images from this trip and post them together. I owe my 'regular' correspondents a picture update in any case.